Thursday, September 21, 2006

Bebek odasi / part 2


Here are a couple more pictures of the baby's room that I didn't squeeze into the other post, Clouds and Birds. The cradle, or 'besik' that you see is in its temporary home... we will be moving it to our bedroom. In its place, Devrim is designing a wooden chest/bench. The other images are from the far wall... a little honey bear with cloud, and the whale and fish are on the wall adjacent to the changing table.

Wednesday, September 20, 2006

Studio/Guest Room


Our former bedroom is now my studio, so I have a room to paint in, stitch in, draw, or just hang out. I promise I will share when guests come! I have been enjoying the space immensely.... I confiscated an old vanity table that once belonged to Devrim's parents and made curtains for it (yes, the same yellow gingham I can't stop talking about), have all my books... (in just one year my collection has grown) and organized my fabric neatly in these fantastic collapsable zippered storage containers I bought at the bazaar. They might make good gifts if anyone is in need of tidy soft storage! Let me know!

Below, proof that we can accomodate guests... hint! hint! For those of you who read my Rose Deniz blog and look at website updates, here's a glimpse at some of the changes that will be taking place prior to welcoming baby deniz and the early months. Having a studio at home will allow me to shift gears a little bit... I want to design and make one-of-a-kind bags with more luxurious materials, maybe research having my own fabric printed and made, and stick to wholesale orders instead of smaller, limited quantity bags, so when I emerge from the cocoon of early motherhood, I'll have a lot of ideas for my next collection of bags. I'm not putting a time limit on any this, but the nice thing is that behind the scenes I'll be able to work with fabulous non-profits like Nest and continue to sell bags on my favorite Partner In Craft site Cut+Paste. Be sure to check my Rose Deniz blog for updates!

Before & After


After a year of living in a two bedroom apartment, we now find ourselves in the luxurious position of having three bedrooms. Same apartment, but the room we aquired was previously used as a storage room for our landlady. As you can see, the room needed some work... Devrim painted the ceiling, patched wallpaper, and oversaw the installation of carpet. Now we have a relaxing, much bigger bedroom!

Sunday, September 17, 2006

Clouds and birds...


A blue bird, whale, honey bear, elephant, humming bird, clouds, ladybugs, and rabbits. I painted the walls in the baby's room with these little creatures. Near each one I wrote their names in English and Turkish. Here's a glimpse of the rest of the room in progress, though it is nearly done. Small things to be added.



The furniture is from Ikea, which ironically I live closer to in Turkey than I did in the US (though there is now one in the greater-Detroit area). I made my list, had the store mapped out and not only did we get in and out in record time (only 2 1/2 hours), but thanks to Ikea's handy online catalog, we spent almost exactly what I had estimated. Compare this to our most recent baby shopping excursion in Izmit, where one has to go from place to place to compare prices because the prices can vary considerably for nearly the same things, I felt immense gratification in being able to make a list and cross things off at our one-stop shopping trip to Ikea.


A particularly funny moment was trying to explain to Devrim that we would go to Ikea, buy things, and then bring them home. I don't think he has ever bought anything out of a catalog in his life. And in Turkey, almost everything is delivered for free, so Ikea is kind of an anomaly.

At 34/35 weeks, I am feeling really good and have more energy than I did during my second trimester! I have yet to take a decent picture in the last couple weeks of my belly, but I will post one soon. And more pictures to come of all the apartment changes!

Tuesday, August 29, 2006

kate's gift


The first time the doorbell rang today, it was a woman looking for the occupants of Apt. no 6, right across the hall from us. She seemed very surprised that I answered the door, even though we clearly live at Apt. no 7. The next door neighbor overheard and helped straighten things out, but not without her again commenting on how no one was answering at no. 6. Go figure. The second time the doorbell rang, I was anticipating another confused visitor, but instead it was the postman who swiftly asked "Is this you?" and waved a package at me. "Yes, it is me," I said. What good fortune I answered the door the second time because inside the package was the above handmade jersey wrap made by my friend Kate! It is soft and wonderful, and the minute it drops below 30 degrees celcius, I will wear it instantly. I also can't wait to wear it after the baby is born because I think it will be easy to wear while nursing.

In other news, we have been making progress over here on our apartment. I have taken a scary 'before' picture of the master bedroom, but will not post it until the 'after' is ready. Devrim and his dad fixed the wallpaper to the best of their ability (the owner/former 1st and only tenant left lots of evidence of her living here, mostly with cigarette stained walls, etc. Not fun to clean... huge thanks to Devrim for wiping walls and not losing his mind over the amount of work involved. I didn't even ask him to do it! It was his idea.) Tomorrow we are having new carpet put in, which means we can move our bedroom furniture to the master bedroom soon. We will have the guest room in place by the time the baby is born... and visitors are welcome! And I am very excited to work on the baby's room in the next few weeks, too.

Also, we made a breakthrough in our research into birthing options in Izmit. The nearest hospital to us is less than five minutes away. The staff is wonderful and friendly, the hospital is small, there are excellent color combinations in the waiting rooms (pale pink and mint green), the delivery and labor rooms are intimate (only 2 beds), the patient rooms are really nice, and the doctor we met with yesterday was in agreement with me wanting as natural a birth as possible. Sweet relief. We will probably continue to see my current doctor until I give birth and then go to this hospital. It is private hospital, but the fees seem reasonable considering the advantages. So now I can relax during these remaining weeks as I just seem to get bigger!

Thursday, August 24, 2006

projects

Yes, it is true.... pregnancy causes one to nest, and much to my surprise, take delight in rendering surfaces clean of dust, cabinets of unused products, and scrubbing the shower (though it is getting more and more difficult these days!). When I am not conjuring up new tasks devoted to household cleanliness, I am working on projects that clearly indicate there is a baby on the way...

example a. work in progress / humprhey the elephant birth sampler


example b. pillow for baby's crib

example c. baby bib for emma gwyneth

I will be tackling the curtains for the baby's room in, you guessed it, the same yellow gingham print as seen above. Some colors I just can't get enough of for reasons I can't always explain. It is unimaginable to me that I will ever get tired of this particular yellow, though I am sure, like other favorites, its time will pass. For now, this bright and cheery print has made itself quite at home in my color repetoire.

Saturday, August 19, 2006

30 weeks

portrait of a baby at 30 weeks... it is amazing to me how these 4D ultrasounds can render color, texture and realness. baby deniz wasn't so willing to cooperate for the camera this time and kept evading the doctor who made several attempts before getting the clearest image of the bunch. note the tiny cowlick... already inheriting a Deniz trait.

















mama at 30 weeks... photo taken at my friend Martina's apartment, just across the street from us. Her mother was visiting from Italy, and as you will see in the next photo, made us amazing homemade pizza!











pizza!




Rose and Martina... Martina will be returning to Italy this September with her Turkish fiance Levent, who will be starting a Master's program in Milano. Lucky Levent will be learning Italian and has been taking lessons from Martina. I will miss her! But it is always nice to know we have good friends to visit in other countries.

Monday, July 31, 2006

28 weeks

Yesterday, while I battled the heat by resting on the couch, Devrim battled the dust in our apartment with the vacuum cleaner. We have more heat on our way, with estimated temperatures around 37 degrees celcius, or 98.6 farenheit. I am not very excited about this, as we don't have an air conditioner, but as long as I rest and don't try to be too active during the hottest part of the day, I am fine.

I did actually help out with the cleaning (we have a new squeegee for the windows and I had fun cleaning them like a windshield at the gas station), but most of the credit goes to Devrim who also did dishes, tried to fix a cabinet and removed our rug from the living room for the summer. Thanks Devrim!




Monday, July 24, 2006

27 weeks and Rose Product


Image one: to be filed under Products After Which One is Sure They Don't Want to be Named, and this pvc pipe meant to fit over a faucet is one of them. It is a very handy item, and we have one in our guest bathroom because the distance between the faucet and the sink is unusually far. Without it, there would be unnecessary splashing. Nevertheless, why does it have to be called Rose?





Image two: to be filed under Proof that Candid Photos of Pregnant Women are not very Flattering. Caught reading while at my in-laws, and with my finger aimed at my ear, Devrim snapped this incriminating picture of me at 27 weeks. It is only fair, I guess, that a few bad pics get thrown in with the good. It is pleasing to me, though, that I can now use my stomach as a book rest.

Saklıgöl

A few pictures from Saklıgöl, which means 'hidden lake' in Turkish. Formed as a result of the earthquake in 1999, Saklıgöl is a small lake tucked into the mountainous region on the southern part of the Gulf of Izmit, near Değiremendere, and only a 20 minute drive from Izmit. We went there without knowing exactly where it was, and a very small sign was the only indication of its location from the road. The road snaked through a village with a series of poorly-paved roads that made it seem a questionable tourist destination. But once we arrived, there was a fully functioning restaurant serving mangal, or barbecue... which just proves again that if there is something to see in Turkey, there is always something to eat!

Breakfast, lunch, or dinner

most excellent pancake variation for pregnant ladies or pancake aficionados found to be tried and true after testing many many times:

whisk together:
2 tbsp. whole wheat flour
1 tbsp. yogurt
1/2 tsp. baking soda (karbonate, if you happen to be in Turkey)
3 tsp. sugar
1/4 cup milk (or more if you like thinner cakes)
1 egg
dash of cinnamon

filling:
semi-sweet chocolate chips (damla çikolata)

-using non-stick pan on medium heat, forgo the oil or butter and watch for bubbles. flip.
-makes 8 silver dollar-size pancakes or 2 lg. cakes.

yum. (credit goes to Meg Lelonek for her search for the best Martha Stewart pancake recipe without baking soda... I was under the delusion baking soda wasn't available in Turkey... and her subsequent discovery of it at Migros under the more appropriate name of 'karbonate', which is baking soda's only ingredient.)

Monday, July 17, 2006

Hodgepodge

1. A photo of my students from the Upper-Intermediate English class I taught for five weeks at Dilko. During our time together they learned fun things like collocations, modal verbs and various idioms. Here we are relaxing after their difficult final exam with börek and five-layer chocolate cake. Yum. From left: Adalet, Gökhan, Volkan, Nürettin, me, and Ilke.

2. Tribute to Wisconsin and Minnesota. In my opinion, there is nothing better than potatoes and cheese, especially if it comes in the form of a casserole. This Still Life With Casserole is an excellent example of the fact that you can take a Midwesterner out of the Midwest, but can't take the Midwest out of the Midwesterner... especially because it was inspired by leftovers. I hope my grandma will approve! In the back you'll see a University of Wisconsin coffee mug that I use daily in honor of my Alma Mater.


3. Flowers that just bloomed days ago on our balcony.

4. Our baby at 21 weeks... this ultrasound picture is a little dated, as I am now 26 weeks (although on some calendars I am 27 weeks). Boy or girl!? Anyone?

5. A picture taken today in our living room... a little back-lit, but already in the last ten days or so I can see I've gotten bigger. Now time seems to be going so much faster!

Sunday, July 16, 2006

Geographical Context


For all those curious about where we live, here is a map of Turkey. Izmit is on the end of the Gulf of Izmit, only an hour and a half from Istanbul. Follow the Sea of Marmara in from the left and you'll find us on the eastern-most end of the Gulf, or look at the western end of the Black Sea where it dips down. Click on the image to enlarge it for better viewing. Thanks to Aunt Jan for the suggestion to post a map!

Wednesday, July 12, 2006

Devlet Hastane and an Orange Couch

Today entailed a trip to the Devlet Hastane for a standard glucose test for gestational diabetes. How to explain health care in Turkey...? Well, first of all, anything involving the use of the public hospital is made easier by the help of my mother-in-law and our neurologist neighbor, Hamit Bey. All of my tests are stamped with Neurology, which is kind of funny. My doctor, Semih Özeren, speaks English, has a private practice and works for the Kocaeli University, but we go to the public hospital for all of the testing. In order to do so, we need a referral every time and knock on Hamit Bey's door. My mother-in-law is like a grandmother to his children, so it all works out in the end. Every time I go to the hospital with her I count my blessings that I have an assertive advocate who handles all of the business. Even for Turkish people, it is hard to know where to go and who to talk to. She is excellent at getting to the front of any line and asking any person for assistance without bashfulness. In the end, 50 g. of glucose and 2 hours later, we walk out of the hospital far earlier than most who have to sit and wait.

For those who are curious, I have done a lot of research into midwifery in Turkey. From what I understand, births are attended by what they consider a 'midwife-nurse' and a doctor will not be present unless necessary. This seems common practice in hospitals worldwide. I believe their concept of a midwife is different than ours, though I won't know this for sure until the time comes! While I had orginally planned on having the midwife-homebirth-waterbirth experience, it does not appear that I will be able to replicate it here. Rather than be disappointed in what I can't have, I have learned in Turkey that one just has to go with the flow. In doing so, I have found all of my needs to be met by very helpful, caring staff.

On a different note, the pictures in this post are of our apartment now, before our landlady removes the furniture she has been storing in the third bedroom, and gives us use of it. We will use that room as our master bedroom, and I'll use our current bedroom as a guestroom/studio. The room with the orange couch and green walls will be the baby's room -- it has a built in closet, which will come in handy. And I love the color, so that will stay the same.

I am not sure why I love the color orange and lime green currently... maybe it is the light in Turkey, or the way people use color differently here.

Tuesday, July 11, 2006

Kemik

kemik and a very pixelated image of the pinar süt cast of characters....

Kemik, or 'bone' in English, is just one of four collectible puppets from a Pinar Milk company TV commercial campaign in Turkey. Claiming I wanted one for the baby, I set out to obtain at least one as I was lured by the strange design and rather happy looking intestine and brain. During the month of June, to recieve one's own puppet of an internal organ or bone, 100 points needed to be saved from the side of a container of milk, yogurt or cheese.

1 carton of milk = 10 points
10 cartons of milk/one month

We only made it to 8 cartons by the end of June, with two accidentally being thrown away, and I was despondent. Thanfully, the last time we went to Real, the major supermarket near us, a promotional offer allowed us to buy 8 cartons for a 'free' Kemik puppet. I couldn't resist. Devrim wasn't so charmed, but had put up with my fascination for a month and was hoping this would quell my disappointment. Now we also do not have to buy milk for a month.

So:

8 cartons + one free Kemik from Real
+ 8 cartons of milk in one month =
_______________________
1 not so very free Kemik

But I am pleased. Now I only need to get 24 more for the rest....
--check out Pinar's website for more!

Sunday, July 09, 2006

6 months in the garden of Yahya Kaptan


I promised a few people a 'side' shot of my growing belly, but I am not sure these photos do justice to my midsection. You wouldn't know it from these pictures, but many a person has been prompted to tell me my belly looks "large" or even "extra large" at 6 months (in Turkish it sounds less harsh as büyük and çok büyük) by strangers and friends alike. When I describe my cravings (starchy plain things and sweets) everyone says it will be a boy. It is fun to keep them guessing because they are really not used to someone saying 'I don't know' when asked about the sex of the baby. Turkish culture has embraced the concept of the ultrasound fully and welcomes the opportunity to plan their baby rooms in strict pink or blue. I prefer green, yellow and white (hint hint!).

I have started a registery online at Babies "R" Us for those who are curious, though the whole international shipping thing is kind of problematic. I kind of did it just for fun and found myself hooked for hours on the website. To see my registery items, just enter my first and last name in the 'find a registery' section. I have yet to do serious searching for items here in Turkey... I imagine most of what I have listed is available in some form here, though my strategy is to first find things I like online and then look for them here. It helps when asking for things in Turkish.

These pictures were taken BEFORE going to Tekzen (a Turkish Home Depot exquivalent) for the fourth or fifth time in one weekend to a) buy an electric screwdriver that Devrim has now been playing with for hours while putting together our new entryway cabinets b) claim missing parts for the same screwdriver c) locate mysterious missing plastic part for bathroom d) look at cabinets without Devrim e) look at cabinets with Devrim and f) return to buy them. Ah, Tekzen. Now I have the aisles almost as memorized as the ones at Target in Troy, MI. The AFTER pictures may have been scary, so I'm glad we didn't wait to take them.

Also, Devrim and the Deniz family (minus me... I stayed home and watched movies --Bee Season, which I really enjoyed, Prime and Match Point-- and drank homemade lemonade) made the trek to Istanbul on Saturday night to take Güneş to her new apartment. While there they set up Güneş's new closet/wardrobe from the aforementioned Tekzen with two normal screwdrivers and a hammer. This thus prompted the purchase of the electrical device today as it took them nearly 5 hours to do yesterday what took only 1 today.

Last but not least, the World Cup is ending as I write this, so we can now return to normal life!


Cabinet-building in progress.

(p.s... Devrim's mom made the tunic/blouse I am wearing out of a scarf and traditional handstitched edging she acquired somewhere. I absolutely love it and will be able to wear it next summer, too!.)

Sunday, June 25, 2006

In the woods... 23 weeks





Communing with nature at the Kocaeli Ormani... Kocaeli Forest Sunday June 25, 2006.

Thanks to the food preparation by Güneş and the fire-tending by Devrim, we enjoyed a tasty Turkish barbecue of köfte and barbecued chicken. With limited utensils like forks (note Dursun's inventive wooden fork) and glasses, we truly felt one with nature. Free from sea-level humidity, we were all able to breathe better for the span of three hours and feel refreshed by the smell of pine trees.

Dursun is done teaching for the summer, so will be a more permanent fixture for the next few months, while we will lose Güneş to her first job in Taxim, Istanbul! I have been an interim English teacher for the last two weeks at Dilko, and will continue for the next three weeks, so I will be occupying half of my Saturday and Sunday explaining collocations, modal verbs, phrasal verbs and idioms to Upper Intermediate students. (help!)

As for the bebek, or Deniz Baby, there is a lot of movement these days which keeps me entertained and mesmerized at night. Even during the day, now, I notice little bumps and kicks which I absolutely love. I have a lot of energy right now... we'll see how long this lasts... but until then, I'll be teaching, working on a new set of drawings/paintings for a pending exhibition in Istanbul, making handbags and catching up on my summer reading, which includes a 'Short History of Byzantium' (ha!), 'Literary Theory', an in-depth look at the Istanbul that was in 'Constantinople', and plenty of fiction to mix in with the history and theory. And of course, studying and practicing Turkish. Sevgiler herkese!

Friday, June 23, 2006

Self-Portrait with Baby and Basil Plants at 22.5 weeks

I can't tell you how difficult it was to get me and my belly into a vertical image! From now on I will let other people take my picture.

Wednesday, June 21, 2006

22 weeks and Gunes's graduation


22 weeks, or 5 months. 2 weeks.

We went to Bursa on June 19 for Güneş's graduation from Uludağ University, where to the tunes of 'Eye of the Tiger' and 'We Will Rock You', we watched a legion of Turkish business school students graduate. I was happy to note that a majority of the Honors students were women, particularly in Economics.

Out of five or more attempts at a group picture where no one was squinting into the sun, I settled for this one where only a few of us are making strange faces.









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Güneş in her moment of post-graduation glory. My favorite picture.