Monday, July 31, 2006

28 weeks

Yesterday, while I battled the heat by resting on the couch, Devrim battled the dust in our apartment with the vacuum cleaner. We have more heat on our way, with estimated temperatures around 37 degrees celcius, or 98.6 farenheit. I am not very excited about this, as we don't have an air conditioner, but as long as I rest and don't try to be too active during the hottest part of the day, I am fine.

I did actually help out with the cleaning (we have a new squeegee for the windows and I had fun cleaning them like a windshield at the gas station), but most of the credit goes to Devrim who also did dishes, tried to fix a cabinet and removed our rug from the living room for the summer. Thanks Devrim!




Monday, July 24, 2006

27 weeks and Rose Product


Image one: to be filed under Products After Which One is Sure They Don't Want to be Named, and this pvc pipe meant to fit over a faucet is one of them. It is a very handy item, and we have one in our guest bathroom because the distance between the faucet and the sink is unusually far. Without it, there would be unnecessary splashing. Nevertheless, why does it have to be called Rose?





Image two: to be filed under Proof that Candid Photos of Pregnant Women are not very Flattering. Caught reading while at my in-laws, and with my finger aimed at my ear, Devrim snapped this incriminating picture of me at 27 weeks. It is only fair, I guess, that a few bad pics get thrown in with the good. It is pleasing to me, though, that I can now use my stomach as a book rest.

Saklıgöl

A few pictures from Saklıgöl, which means 'hidden lake' in Turkish. Formed as a result of the earthquake in 1999, Saklıgöl is a small lake tucked into the mountainous region on the southern part of the Gulf of Izmit, near Değiremendere, and only a 20 minute drive from Izmit. We went there without knowing exactly where it was, and a very small sign was the only indication of its location from the road. The road snaked through a village with a series of poorly-paved roads that made it seem a questionable tourist destination. But once we arrived, there was a fully functioning restaurant serving mangal, or barbecue... which just proves again that if there is something to see in Turkey, there is always something to eat!

Breakfast, lunch, or dinner

most excellent pancake variation for pregnant ladies or pancake aficionados found to be tried and true after testing many many times:

whisk together:
2 tbsp. whole wheat flour
1 tbsp. yogurt
1/2 tsp. baking soda (karbonate, if you happen to be in Turkey)
3 tsp. sugar
1/4 cup milk (or more if you like thinner cakes)
1 egg
dash of cinnamon

filling:
semi-sweet chocolate chips (damla çikolata)

-using non-stick pan on medium heat, forgo the oil or butter and watch for bubbles. flip.
-makes 8 silver dollar-size pancakes or 2 lg. cakes.

yum. (credit goes to Meg Lelonek for her search for the best Martha Stewart pancake recipe without baking soda... I was under the delusion baking soda wasn't available in Turkey... and her subsequent discovery of it at Migros under the more appropriate name of 'karbonate', which is baking soda's only ingredient.)

Monday, July 17, 2006

Hodgepodge

1. A photo of my students from the Upper-Intermediate English class I taught for five weeks at Dilko. During our time together they learned fun things like collocations, modal verbs and various idioms. Here we are relaxing after their difficult final exam with börek and five-layer chocolate cake. Yum. From left: Adalet, Gökhan, Volkan, Nürettin, me, and Ilke.

2. Tribute to Wisconsin and Minnesota. In my opinion, there is nothing better than potatoes and cheese, especially if it comes in the form of a casserole. This Still Life With Casserole is an excellent example of the fact that you can take a Midwesterner out of the Midwest, but can't take the Midwest out of the Midwesterner... especially because it was inspired by leftovers. I hope my grandma will approve! In the back you'll see a University of Wisconsin coffee mug that I use daily in honor of my Alma Mater.


3. Flowers that just bloomed days ago on our balcony.

4. Our baby at 21 weeks... this ultrasound picture is a little dated, as I am now 26 weeks (although on some calendars I am 27 weeks). Boy or girl!? Anyone?

5. A picture taken today in our living room... a little back-lit, but already in the last ten days or so I can see I've gotten bigger. Now time seems to be going so much faster!

Sunday, July 16, 2006

Geographical Context


For all those curious about where we live, here is a map of Turkey. Izmit is on the end of the Gulf of Izmit, only an hour and a half from Istanbul. Follow the Sea of Marmara in from the left and you'll find us on the eastern-most end of the Gulf, or look at the western end of the Black Sea where it dips down. Click on the image to enlarge it for better viewing. Thanks to Aunt Jan for the suggestion to post a map!

Wednesday, July 12, 2006

Devlet Hastane and an Orange Couch

Today entailed a trip to the Devlet Hastane for a standard glucose test for gestational diabetes. How to explain health care in Turkey...? Well, first of all, anything involving the use of the public hospital is made easier by the help of my mother-in-law and our neurologist neighbor, Hamit Bey. All of my tests are stamped with Neurology, which is kind of funny. My doctor, Semih Özeren, speaks English, has a private practice and works for the Kocaeli University, but we go to the public hospital for all of the testing. In order to do so, we need a referral every time and knock on Hamit Bey's door. My mother-in-law is like a grandmother to his children, so it all works out in the end. Every time I go to the hospital with her I count my blessings that I have an assertive advocate who handles all of the business. Even for Turkish people, it is hard to know where to go and who to talk to. She is excellent at getting to the front of any line and asking any person for assistance without bashfulness. In the end, 50 g. of glucose and 2 hours later, we walk out of the hospital far earlier than most who have to sit and wait.

For those who are curious, I have done a lot of research into midwifery in Turkey. From what I understand, births are attended by what they consider a 'midwife-nurse' and a doctor will not be present unless necessary. This seems common practice in hospitals worldwide. I believe their concept of a midwife is different than ours, though I won't know this for sure until the time comes! While I had orginally planned on having the midwife-homebirth-waterbirth experience, it does not appear that I will be able to replicate it here. Rather than be disappointed in what I can't have, I have learned in Turkey that one just has to go with the flow. In doing so, I have found all of my needs to be met by very helpful, caring staff.

On a different note, the pictures in this post are of our apartment now, before our landlady removes the furniture she has been storing in the third bedroom, and gives us use of it. We will use that room as our master bedroom, and I'll use our current bedroom as a guestroom/studio. The room with the orange couch and green walls will be the baby's room -- it has a built in closet, which will come in handy. And I love the color, so that will stay the same.

I am not sure why I love the color orange and lime green currently... maybe it is the light in Turkey, or the way people use color differently here.

Tuesday, July 11, 2006

Kemik

kemik and a very pixelated image of the pinar süt cast of characters....

Kemik, or 'bone' in English, is just one of four collectible puppets from a Pinar Milk company TV commercial campaign in Turkey. Claiming I wanted one for the baby, I set out to obtain at least one as I was lured by the strange design and rather happy looking intestine and brain. During the month of June, to recieve one's own puppet of an internal organ or bone, 100 points needed to be saved from the side of a container of milk, yogurt or cheese.

1 carton of milk = 10 points
10 cartons of milk/one month

We only made it to 8 cartons by the end of June, with two accidentally being thrown away, and I was despondent. Thanfully, the last time we went to Real, the major supermarket near us, a promotional offer allowed us to buy 8 cartons for a 'free' Kemik puppet. I couldn't resist. Devrim wasn't so charmed, but had put up with my fascination for a month and was hoping this would quell my disappointment. Now we also do not have to buy milk for a month.

So:

8 cartons + one free Kemik from Real
+ 8 cartons of milk in one month =
_______________________
1 not so very free Kemik

But I am pleased. Now I only need to get 24 more for the rest....
--check out Pinar's website for more!

Sunday, July 09, 2006

6 months in the garden of Yahya Kaptan


I promised a few people a 'side' shot of my growing belly, but I am not sure these photos do justice to my midsection. You wouldn't know it from these pictures, but many a person has been prompted to tell me my belly looks "large" or even "extra large" at 6 months (in Turkish it sounds less harsh as büyük and çok büyük) by strangers and friends alike. When I describe my cravings (starchy plain things and sweets) everyone says it will be a boy. It is fun to keep them guessing because they are really not used to someone saying 'I don't know' when asked about the sex of the baby. Turkish culture has embraced the concept of the ultrasound fully and welcomes the opportunity to plan their baby rooms in strict pink or blue. I prefer green, yellow and white (hint hint!).

I have started a registery online at Babies "R" Us for those who are curious, though the whole international shipping thing is kind of problematic. I kind of did it just for fun and found myself hooked for hours on the website. To see my registery items, just enter my first and last name in the 'find a registery' section. I have yet to do serious searching for items here in Turkey... I imagine most of what I have listed is available in some form here, though my strategy is to first find things I like online and then look for them here. It helps when asking for things in Turkish.

These pictures were taken BEFORE going to Tekzen (a Turkish Home Depot exquivalent) for the fourth or fifth time in one weekend to a) buy an electric screwdriver that Devrim has now been playing with for hours while putting together our new entryway cabinets b) claim missing parts for the same screwdriver c) locate mysterious missing plastic part for bathroom d) look at cabinets without Devrim e) look at cabinets with Devrim and f) return to buy them. Ah, Tekzen. Now I have the aisles almost as memorized as the ones at Target in Troy, MI. The AFTER pictures may have been scary, so I'm glad we didn't wait to take them.

Also, Devrim and the Deniz family (minus me... I stayed home and watched movies --Bee Season, which I really enjoyed, Prime and Match Point-- and drank homemade lemonade) made the trek to Istanbul on Saturday night to take Güneş to her new apartment. While there they set up Güneş's new closet/wardrobe from the aforementioned Tekzen with two normal screwdrivers and a hammer. This thus prompted the purchase of the electrical device today as it took them nearly 5 hours to do yesterday what took only 1 today.

Last but not least, the World Cup is ending as I write this, so we can now return to normal life!


Cabinet-building in progress.

(p.s... Devrim's mom made the tunic/blouse I am wearing out of a scarf and traditional handstitched edging she acquired somewhere. I absolutely love it and will be able to wear it next summer, too!.)